Different caste, different state...

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I am a girl, 19 years old. Main mere boyfriend ke saath one nd half years se relationship mein hu nd soon 2 years ho jayega.

Main apne bohut bf se bohut jyada pyr krti hu nd he tooo but use love ko show nhi karta.. We r in a long distance relationship nd hum kbhi kbhi during vacations wagera mein plan karke hi mil pate h.. Woh starting se hi luv me a lot lekin with time he is having less interest in me nd when i ask kyu aise baat krna kaam kr rhe ho toh bolta h ki tumhra nd mera koi future nhi h becoz mere parents love marriages ke against h nd they believe in caste nd all.

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Nd woh apne parents ke against kabhi nhi jayega. Meine kaha ki ye sab pyr krne se pehle kyu nhi btaya thn bol rha h ki galti ho gyi becoz tab mein nhi janta tha ki tumse serious luv hoga.

What should i do now? Uske bina i can't imagine. Boht pyr krte h usse bohut. Kya different caste, different states se hone se hum kabhi future nhi bana skte. Itna important h ye.

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£ove guru 1 year ago

You shud tell all this to ur parents n if ur parents are understandable than you can represent ur botfriend in front of them..

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bazigar 1 year ago

Srf yhi pr hr nation ka base Tika hota h, Jin logo ki marriage ko lekar cast ko dekhne ki mentality h use hum khtm nhi kr skte pr use badal zrur skte hain unhe smjha kr ya baat krke, ye tbi possible h jab aap dono apne parents ko apni feeling khusi or future k bre m khul k bta sako or is Tarike se apne aap ko unke samne pesh kro ki wo majbur ho Jaye manne ko or na srf tmhri maanein varn dusre parents ko b aise hi khe, taki koi apke parents p ungli na uthaye. Unke Bina possible kuch nhi pr bat krke hi bdi bdi btn solve hti h. Lmba wait krna h aap dono ko abi,isi generation ko ye marriage ko lekar castizom wali soch bdl skti h kb, jb wo apne bat rkhne layak ho Jaye sbke bich. Yani complete independent. Soch nhi bdlti h agar to jis ldke se tum pyar krti ho wo phr apne bcho pr castizom Wali Soch ko thopega, family trend follow krega, mtlb ye tb tk nhi hoga nation m jb tk generation b is castizom trend ko todegi nhi. Galat tatika nhi sahi tarika.tarika kisi b chz ka ho agar sahi ho to sab manzur krte h. Kya pta aap b apne bcho ko cast ki dal dal m dhakel dein jb wo aise faisle le. Soch Soch par depend krta h sab kuch. Abi teenage hain to kaafi waqt h abi, college complete krein ya jo kr rhe hain.

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