Does my ex love me even after my marriage?

My #SecretConfessed,
In 2010 he called me to help our mutual friend for his love. Later he confessed his feelings for me. I started liking him till then. He was a Muslim guy and I being a Hindu girl.

We were madly in love for 3 months over phone, video calls. It was a long distance relationship.
When after 3 months he started avoiding me, I begged him for being with me but he was stubborn with his decision.

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I went to depression for 2 years and tried to hurt myself once. I kept waiting for him.
He used to message me once in a month asking how I am and I used to wait for that message for the whole month. So to forget him I came in contact with my life partner and we got married.

But my ex always used to be in touch with me somehow.

 

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Horizon 1 year ago

Not sure about his love for you..but you should ideally exclude him from your life. Should avoid all contact with him of any means. And do tell your husband about him.

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Healer 1 year ago

Ex is more than a friend.... Really!!! Hold on there. Don't spoil your life with your own hands. Can't say more. U don't need a guide. Dear, listen ur ex is trying to manipulate you emotionally. Plz plz don't fall prey to his sweet sugar coated words. Don't let a third person into ur relationship. Ur ex is trying to create a place for himself in your life. Don't let him succeed. Else u will eventually move away from ur husband emotionally. This is for sure. Take my words. Don't let ur ex emotionally manipulate u. Where has he been all these days.. Especially for those 2 yes. Y this sudden love? Humans don't do anything without personal gain. Remember that. U said ur husband is everything for you. So try to connect with him more on an emotional level. Not ur ex. If you are down with fever who will take care of you.. Husband or ex?? Ex will send a msg.. Whereas husband will give you medicine with his hands...

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Healer 1 year ago

U went into depression for 2 yrs bcoz of him. Your ex is your past. Ur husband is your present and your future too.It is said "When old lovers meet.. Sparks reignite." Stay away from your ex. Y do u even need him. U have your husband for emotional support. U don't need your bf for that. Emotional affairs very often than not turn into physical affairs. Being friends with ur ex is like a LOADED GUN. Handling it is very difficult. Leave your past in the past. Work on your relationship with ur husband. Y do u want to carry the baggage of ur past. Leave it behind.

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John Snow 1 year ago

Having feelings for ur ex is common, and its very natural unless u hav had a bad breakup with ur ex. But its high time u realise that u should move on. You have chosen ur life partner in your husband and I am sure that he is responsible enough who can advice you in solving ur issues. Try him as your life guide instead of relying on ur ex. This shall strenthen ur relationship with ur husband. This is absolutely essential since at the end of ur life, u r going to find ur husband on ur bedside and not ur ex. And i know this is going to be painful, but slowly start cutting ur contracts with ur ex. Reduce the once in a month msg to say once a year slowly. Afterall that is what it is. 2 small words "move" and "on" when joined together gives you a intense pain for a short time. but once u r through, u can literally see that Life is awesome. ..!! Hav a gud one.. All d best.

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Punit 1 year ago

It's alright to feel this way. Love is universal but love not always takes the form of relationship. Your ex although cares about you, was not able to chose you over everyone as his wife. Your husband has chosen you for life. Listen to his unsaid love. So also you made your choice right by making pain less for you. We have partners in every life. They love us but cannot be with us in every life. So whoever is part of your life now love them respect them. Past is past and Present important.

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Xyz 1 year ago

U r a fool.. he didn't wanted you to be in problems.. thats why he left you is a lie. Trust me. You also know the truth..your ego is hurt..thats all..you are already cheating ya husband giving space to your lover. Please leave your Husband and go die. Let him leave a good life atleast with someone who actually loves him..not just in words..

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Manmit 1 year ago

Don't spoil ur life and ur husband life. Jise ek Baar pyar ho jaye use AAP dosto ki tarah kabhi treat Ni kr sakte. Forget him and move on. Ur husband can guide u better than him.

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Mani 1 year ago

More than friend, Less than boyfriend.... Half Boyfriend.. :-)))

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Jitu 1 year ago

Yaar agar ladka sirf gf ke sath aur kisi ke sath bi engage ho to ladkiyana usko bastard idiot nonsense pta nai kya kya bolti hain bt yahana pr max confession main ladki sadi ke baad bi ex ko like krti ha yaad krti ha. Ye rule jb khana chle jate hain. Apne hisab se rule banati hain aur break krti hain

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Ankit 1 year ago

Kya Rayta hai more then friend and less then love shaadi ho gayi to intension clear hona chahiye ki bus husband hai

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