Being responsible for ex's alcohol addiction?
Recently she told me that his liver got some infection and he is constantly being ill. And that makes her more guilty and she thinks whatever happening to him is because of her.
Now she said she wants to brake up saying "i cant live with you while giving him pain", after a lot of arguments she said "me uski drinking band karungi and then i will come back to you so that my guilt will go away".
My mind is pretty f#ck#d now, i don't know what to do. We had been preparing if her parents denied we won't marry but now she is backing cause of this reason that my mind refuses to accept.
Should i leave her? I don't think it's her fault that he started drinking and smoking. I too had break up in the past but never touched alcohol.
And 7 years is a lot of time to move on... How is she responsible for his alcoholism?
We are living good but only thing bothers me is about her guilt to her ex. Which i think as a soft corner. I want her back in my life normally but without her guilt or anything for her ex.
What should i do ?