Modern female slave

I have been married for 11.5 years to a man who is a decade older than me... Ours was an arranged marriage set up by our parents.. we don't have any kids owing to medical complications in both of us.. we have had our differences as with any other couple.. however things went out of hand a couple of years ago... I tried walking out of my marriage but was sent back by my parents every time citing the obvious reasons of a social stigma and the age old solution that he will change. Every time I relented and accepted for their sake. But now I feel I can take it no more. I am tired of being the dutiful daughter. Everything I have ever wished for in life has been strongly refuted. I was practically raised by my mom as dad travelled for work extensively. I played on my school's basketball and hockey team.. however I had to quit coz my mom could not let me stay at school for evening practice... Courtesy my younger brother who would then have to be left alone at home.

I wanted to learn indian classical dance.. dad refused citing reasons that no girl in his family will put up a dance performance in front of an audience! I wanted to learn indian classical music as I have been gifted with a musical voice. This time mom refused with the same reason as dad gave for not learning to dance. I accepted all this gracefully. I concentrated on my studies and became a doctor. I had found my passion which was obstetrics and gynecology... but then this proposal happened.

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AE 1 year ago

Don't stay in life of people who don't know to respect your decisions. Even if it is ur parents, u can just have some long distance relationship with them. Ignore the society. Our society never find good. Enjoy ur life. Thank god u didn't have kids. It wud have only made worse. Leave him. Break or chains and fly free. Fulfil ur wishes. If u have a job why shud u be afraid?

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xyz 1 year ago

your parents dont want to see you happy neither your husband does so just leave them . such a multi talented girl you can live independently n u dont need anyone to be happy be free. leave them all n live ur life

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xyz 1 year ago

bhaag jao sab se door.

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Anil 2 years ago

U have guts . Use them . Get out of that suffocating environment . Do not have kids . Parents and husband can become enemy within .

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ALFRED HIRXH 2 years ago

Study if DIVORCED bixes love on to a good life EVER.. IT GOES FROM BAD TO WORSE Read the book CUPIDS POISONED ARROW Or a book on karezza

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Sudhir 2 years ago

Kick that moron in n*ts n leave.

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manish 2 years ago

leave him and move on.........its ur lyf...........live it as uh want

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Sari 2 years ago

Divorce him, forget him and start a new life!! Nobody should be a prisoner in their own home!

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Hurt and betrayed 2 years ago

Thanks... I had started to doubt my sanity!

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Sud 2 years ago

Leave him and try to live alone and do whatever you want to. Be happy

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Sud 2 years ago

Be independent. Don't be a slave. Read books. Be brave. If your parents don't support you, then live alone. Be the boss of your life.

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