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Me and my girlfriend had in a relationship for 8 years and in the year of 2014 I moved to another place to pursue my PG and have to settle down in the future and we had a well planned after married life. We have fixed some goals after marriage.

Now the problem is she had become very possessivene and she doesn't want me to roam with my colleagues so for this reason we had a big fight. Till 15 days we didn't speak at all. After that I only went to her home and apologised for my mistake and told her it won't repeat her again, but she won't apologise me at all. I requested her till 1 year, no way she is not talking with me at all.

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I failed in my exams and after then worried about future and studied hard and got a job as well.

 

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sayani 2 years ago

marriage is a very serious issue. and it should be taken seriously. one do not get married to have divorce later. and the girl's decision is fluctuating often as you mentioned. so you have to re-consider the situation and know if it worth the risk. its important to know if she had or have a boyfriend after you guys broke up. and if she have one at the moment then you don't wanna be stuck with a disloyal life. and if she had one after the break up then she never loved you enough. make sure that she is not with you just because you are well settled in your career right now. ... and if you think she is the one for you and if you are confident enough to make the marriage work then go for it. but if for a single second doubt crosses your mind then think before you act. don't take rash decisions. marriage is based on love but also based on loyalty, mutual respect, honesty, responsibility, understanding. what i meant is.. be sure about what you are doing. don't do anything because you feel guilty or responsible or just out of a moment of attraction or weakness.

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Rashi 2 years ago

See girls are not this fickle.somethingz going on in her mind.u need to meet her and discuss all this..n if by any chance shez had a bf..then ask whether sachm she had or she just said to make u jealous..also by the looks of it..just coz u r well settled and coz u love her alot..shez playing these games wod u...girls do dis..but to know your value..ill suggest you..say no to her..block her..from not all mediums..see how much efforts she makes..a girl in love,evn if shez angry,she neva eva insultsher bf in front of people around,reject her..n see wat she does..mk her realise ur worth..shez taking u fr granted..dont let her do so..n btw m 99 percent sure..u wont be happy with her..dont think bout the 8yrs..since u wrnt wid her all d tym..so it dsnt count..ill suggest u,move on..shez nt a good girl:)

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Manu 2 years ago

Interesting to see they acknowledge the mind games they play. Woman are a blessing in men's life, however they can be other way around too.

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sayani 2 years ago

marriage is a very serious issue. and should be taken seriously. one don't get married to have divorce later. and if her decision is fluctuating often like you mentioned then may be you should re-consider if this is worth all the trouble she is creating now. and also verify if she actually have a boyfriend.. or if she did. simply coz if she have a boyfriend, after marriage you don't want to be stuck with a disloyal wife. and if she had a boyfriend after you guys broke up, that means she didn't love you enough and may be she is marrying you just cause now you are well settled in your life. and not because she loves you... but also if you really love her and she is the one for you and if you have confidence that you can make this marriage work then go ahead. if she is worth the risk then take it. but if for a second you have doubt in your mind then don't go for this marriage.. take your time. think and then decide. what i mean is, whatever your decision is, be sure about what you are doing. don't do it because you feel responsible or guilty or anything that sort.

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Eddie 2 years ago

Leave her bro or else u will regret it

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