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I'm a girl who is chubby or fatty but i look nice (people say). I dont know how to drive any vehicle honestly not even cycle. So i travel by bus...

This has been mostly with me that boys (not all of course) in the bus always rub themselves to my body, even when m sitting (not window side). They stand near me and rub themselves. If there is rush and i stand they turn towards me and do the same thing. I experience this since my school days. I don't understand what to do that time, they do it so much that i can literally feel it in there pants.

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Anonymous 2 years ago

Having been on other side, I can say that some boys do it intentionally. I personally avoid traveling in crowded places but when I can't avoid, I have been in circumstances that put me in the same situation as mentioned. As far as I remember, It was never intentional to plan and rub myself against a girl but when I had no option to go any other place(heavily crowded) it was intentional at times to stand in that position. With all responsibility and ownership, I accept it is wrong and should never be done. I can only ask for forgiveness which I have done quite a few times from people in front of others. As far as your response is considered, if you just scold the guy once, the message will be loud and clear. I am not saying boys should be so foolish to not understand the other person's problem but sometimes, silence is misunderstood. So I request you should just scold the person to get away, he will understand right away

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Anonymous 2 years ago

Hope my reply helped. did not want to confuse. Just gave an option what you could do. You can decide on the right thing to do

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Rihan Imran 2 years ago

Give a tight slap and speak loudly.. you will get support and help instantly

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sayani 2 years ago

girl, this happens with so many girls, not just you. so you gotta stand up for urself.. raise your voice or just tell them to turn around so loudly that they will have no other choice but obey. people can only help you when you can stand up for yourself. and.. IT'S NOT ABOUT YOUR WEIGHT.. don't be insecure about who you are.

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Ramesh Chellapan 2 years ago

You have to teach the pervert guys a lesson for their life... Have pepper spray in hand or take a pen and prick them wit the pointed tip... IF you are scared., then shout at the guy and surrounding people will support definitely...

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amit 2 years ago

u know what once I used to do the same thing...I thought its OK if I do so coz no girl resisted me or even said anything to me... but I regret those things now...I m ashamed of my past behaviour and I understand a girl's dignity now...but I think if any of those girls would have took stand against me and gave me the lesson I would have understand these things very earlier so just say...without fear i request and this is my request for all girls... plz take stand for urself

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Anonymous 2 years ago

I too misunderstood their silence and I was so foolish to do that. I too have done this in the past and despite knowing it was wrong had continued. I realized later how lowly and ogreish act I was doing. I will carry this regret and shame forever.

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king 2 years ago

Refuse u r not an Aladdin lamp

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just a guy 2 years ago

push the guy away. hell if he doesn't still move, Yell!! its not right unless they do it with ur consent. or just kick them in the nuts if need be so. let them know ur a strong woman. a slap to a pervert a day, keeps them away.

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