Regrets after getting sober!

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Hi. I am a female 19yrs old.
I am in a relationship since last 2 years, we both love each other but he doesn't respect me. But he is like madly in love with me.

I am guilty about a mistake that I did... I have a friend who came to visit my place where I’m studying. We planned for a night out, I took a leave from my hostel. We had a drink. It was my 1st time that I was having a hard drink. After that I don't know how and what happened we became intimate with each other, not much. Still I'm feeling guilty about it. My friend is even sorry for that.

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I am not able to sleep at night due to my guilt. I cannot even talk to my bf about it else he would kill me. I am afraid of him.

Please tell what to do. No negative comments and mocking please, I direly need your help because I have my exams coming forth…

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Robin 1 year ago

First of all, calm down. Do not worry for what is past. You did not do that intentionally. I am sure you are a girl with very high values and it was just an accident for which you are already v sorry. You have following options 1. You can tell about this to your bf. You don't know what could be the reaction. One needs to check if the other person is capable to know the truth. Not everyone is able to accept such situations. 2. You can keep it secret and forget the past. In such situation, ideally if it is not repeated, I don't think there should be much problem. whatever decision you take, please be very careful as that will impact your relationship with your friend in a big way.

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Ghostrider 1 year ago

Just move on in ur life..... Spent quality time with him, but don't discuss this with ur bf otherwise he will never trust u again. Gud luck

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Conscience 1 year ago

You need to ask yourself how you would feel if he would have done the same no matter how sober he was. Since you feel guilty and realize your mistake, I would suggest that you try to move on with your boyfriend, keep yourself busy with him, try to make him feel that you are always there for him no matter what. That's all I can say because I have been through something similar with my gf who was literally cheating on me and I decided to forgive her since she showed guilt in front of me. But as a bf I always expect her to make me feel special and as such would advise you to do the same. Your boyfriend doesn't know about this. But you should try to make him feel special (if you love him truely), at least to overcome your guilt.

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Anonymous Knight 1 year ago

Honesty has always been a best policy , i have felt so. But honest needs gut - for the speaker and for the listener as well. Being the speaker you have the guts to tell your boyfriend about the incident, but its doubtful he has the same guts to hear and bear all that. You already repent about the incident that happened in situation brought about by, unintentionally. Self realization and repentance is best thing to be done - and you have done it already. So best option would be to lock down this memory and move on ahead. you cant undo it. you need not ruin your future because of it. so just relax and let this thing fly away with wind. Concentrate on your exams - its the most important thing to do. Good luck for your exams. take care always

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anonymus 1 year ago

U r cheating him by not telling this incident to him . And if he doesn't respect u , that doesn't mean u will intimate with other guy , solve that thing by talking , he loves u , so u should respect that , if he loves u how do u get distracted .

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curious 1 year ago

you havent told ur BF yet and even before that he doesnt respect you? why so? Shit happens all the time.. Just forget this incident and move on..

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Anonim 1 year ago

He shud understand wen u r honest

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king 1 year ago

Lets hope he will forgive you.. if you truly regret it..

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Anonim 1 year ago

Don't expect him to forget what you did to him.. it hurts and he cannot just live on with it.. give him some time and prove that you're worth his love

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